Sunday, February 9, 2014

Congenital Heart Disease awareness week






This week is CHD awareness week. Congenital Heart Disease is the most common birth defect in preemies, AND full term babies alike. It leads to more deaths of newborns than all other birth defects combined!

Though Blake went through a multitude of problems and obstacles I am one of the lucky ones whose child had a very minor and usually treatable CHD! He did however require surgery and it was one of the most terrifying surgeries he had. He was so small weighing only a little over 2 pounds when he had the surgery. The type of CHD that Blake suffered from made it where his heart could not regulate the blood flow between his pulmonary artery and aorta in his heart. Usually this can improve and close with time or can be present through your lifetime and not cause problems. However Blake's PDA was causing extreme problems, worsening his respiratory and cardiac status every day. The surgery that he had required the surgeon to enter through his back left side and deflate his left lung to suture close the open vessel between the two. Thankfully it was successful and he went on to improve tremendously after the surgery...actually being able to come off the breathing machine only a little over a week later. (That may seem long, but for those that know our story he had already been on the ventilator for over a month and they believed he would never being able to.)

We were on the lucky side of things. We witnessed a child in the NICU have the same surgery Blake did, and unfortunately he did not respond well. We witnessed multiple children's parents go through surgery after surgery. I have very close friend whose child had a more severe case of CHD requiring open heart shortly after birth. Unfortunately, despite the best care, their daughter became a very special angel. (A very special angel indeed...I can only hope she and Conor are playing, laughing and are the best of friends in Heaven)

CHD affects 1.8 million families in the U.S. Every1 in 100 children in the unites states are born with a type of CHD . There are a variety of different types. Although it affects so many individuals in the US there is very little resource out their for the families they affect!

The mended little hearts organization however continues to grow and provides so much information, they state "we hope to raise public awareness about conditions that affect babies. It is our sincere hope that efforts to educate the public will result in improved early diagnosis, additional funding for support and educational services, scientific research, and access to quality of care for our children and adults."

So let's remember those very special angels, the children/adults still struggling in the NICU, PICU, and in hospitals across the United States. Support and become knowledgable!!

I love someone with CHD and he wears the scars to prove it!












We couldn't be prouder to have this little man covered in scars! Each scar reminds us how big of a blessing our little miracle baby is!









Thursday, January 30, 2014

Determination.




Blake has more struggles than I would like my almost two year old to have. A toddler should be running around, throwing toys, laughing, playing and making a mess. My toddler however is in a constant fight with his body. His brain tells him what he should be able to do, and his body unfortunately does not always cooperate. It takes Blake a little longer than most children to reach developmental milestones. Blake started crawling when he was 18 months old. He can not walk, or stand unassisted but as of this past month Blake has become more expressive, more curious and has been constantly wanting to pull up on things. Unfortunately Blake has a hard time with his left arm and it's tight muscles tend to make it very difficult and he will usually throw himself back out of frustration and give up. Which is maybe one of the most heartbreaking and hard things Zach and I have witnessed lately. The pure frustration alone can make us feel so bad and wish the hurt away. However after a lot of frustration, determination and persistent practice through repetition, we are ALMOST there!!!


This video is from today's therapy session you can see how hard he works! Such a trooper!

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Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Let's play ball!

Blake and Daddy have been practicing their basketball skills! Look at my NBA star!

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Monday, January 27, 2014

Winter Hibernating!



I don't know if it's been the bipolar weather here in Kentucky, the craze caused the after Christmas commotion or if it's out of pure exhaustion but I have neglected the blog world for sure!












We, here at the Hargis household, have been bundled in tight here at our house. We make few appearances out in the cold, flu infested world these days! We can never be too cautious! Luckily, Blake has made it so far without anything crazy this winter, only a little snot, fussiness, and cuddling maybe once or twice!





Blake is getting so big, I can't believe (or am in denial) that he will be two in April! We still have daily struggles, and he has been showing more and more frustration at times with the function of his left arm. But of course even a bad arm can't keep this boy down....baby gates, and even some homemade blockades won't prevent this boy from trying to get wherever he probably shouldn't be! Although Blake's body doesn't always agree with what his brain wants him to do, his intelligence and thought process astound me on a daily basis. He will no matter what get where or what he wants- even if it take him double the time....he is one determined little boy!!!















Wednesday, January 15, 2014

Sweets for the Sweet


Do you like sweets!? How about chocolate in particular?!
Well come to find out so does Mr. Blake!!!!









Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Happy New Year

From our family to yours.... We wish you a wonderful new years! May 2014 bring many blessings and new adventures!








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